The best article I read all week is Eric Puchner’s The Cooler Me. Puchner wondered what his life would have been like if he had made different choices, so he set off to find his doppelgänger to see what he’s missing out on. The results are funny and poignant, and it’s just such a well-written article. If you’re a parent, I think you will particularly enjoy it.

It’s very long, and hard to quote from, but here are just a couple of paragraphs as a teaser:

For some reason, I told [my doppelgänger] Kyle about how I’d asked my daughter recently what she wanted to be for Halloween, and she’d said “a confused chicken.” This apparently meant dressing up like a chicken but pretending not to know what she was. I couldn’t help thinking she’d hit upon a deep ontological truth: the idea that who you were would be obvious to everyone else but yourself.

And shortly thereafter:

There’s a reason we drift toward attachment, I think, as we get older – attachment to people, to work, to things. As death moves closer, we try our hardest to dig in. We pound in the stakes so that our tents don’t blow away. Still, it makes sense to me that the perceptions we once had of ourselves would be hard to cast off. We miss our youth, our freedom — which is not the same thing as wanting it back. We may think it is, but it’s not. We’re all confused chickens.

But please, do yourself a favor and carve out some time this weekend to read the whole thing.