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        <title>Most people feel just as boring as you do</title>
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          <![CDATA[We might think other people live exciting lives, but it's probably not true.]]>
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          <![CDATA[<p>Joshua Gross&#8217;s post <em><a href="http://notes.unwieldy.net/post/31170623385/nothing-is-quite-what-it-seems">Nothing is Quite What it Seems</a></em> struck quite a nerve for me:</p>
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<p>In this world of constant communication, it’s easy to feel as though everyone else’s life is amazing, while you’re still sitting there eating cereal in your underwear.</p>
<p>Of your 2,000 Facebook friends and 300 people you follow on Twitter, it’s inevitable that some small percentage are doing something interesting at any given moment.</p>
<p>Looking at it the other way around, though, the vast majority of people are sitting around wondering why they seem boring, just like you.</p>
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<p>As a father to a 3-year old, I feel <em>particularly</em> boring these days as the exotic photos fly by on Instagram. Joshua&#8217;s post reminds me of Sherry Turkle&#8217;s phrase &#8220;Who will hold a brief for the real?&#8221;, which I referenced in <a href="https://elezea.com/2011/12/a-brief-for-the-real/">this post</a>.</p>
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